What You Can Control When Buying or Selling in Lloydminster (and What You Can't)

Every week somebody sits across from me with the same look. Maybe it's a young couple who just found out rates moved again. Maybe it's a family who's lived in their home for twenty years and can't quite believe the offer that came in. Either way, the question underneath is usually the same: How do I make a good decision when so much of this feels out of my hands?

It's a fair question. A lot of buying or selling really is out of our hands. But not all of it. Over the years I've found that the people who come through a move feeling calm and confident aren't the ones who got lucky with timing. They're the ones who got clear about what they could control, and let the rest go.

A 2,000-year-old idea that still works

I came across Marcus Aurelius a while back. He was a Roman emperor who kept a private journal, now known as the Meditations, full of notes to himself about staying steady under pressure. One idea comes up again and again: sort everything into what's up to you and what isn't, then put your energy where it counts.

He put it this way: "Well, then, is it not better to use what is in thy power like a free man than to desire in a slavish and abject way what is not in thy power?" (Meditations 9.40)

The old-fashioned English takes a second, but the idea fits real estate perfectly. You can spend your energy wishing rates would drop or refreshing listings at midnight, or you can spend it on the things that actually move your deal forward. Let's sort them out.

What you can't control (so stop carrying it)

Interest rates. Rates are set by forces far bigger than any of us: the Bank of Canada, lenders and the wider economy. You can't change them. You can plan for them (more on that below).

Inventory. Some months there are lots of homes to choose from in Lloydminster. Other months, the listing you want just isn't there yet.

Other buyers and sellers. You can't control whether someone else falls in love with the same house, how many offers show up, or how a seller on the other side feels about your terms.

The appraisal. If you're financing, your lender will want to know the property supports the price. An appraiser's opinion isn't something you get to write.

The weather and the seasons. This is Lloydminster. A February move is a different animal from a June move, and no amount of wishing will change that.

The broader economy. Our local economy has deep roots in energy and agriculture, and what happens in those industries (commodity prices, hiring, big projects) ripples through the housing market.

It's natural to feel uneasy about all of this, but worrying doesn't change any of it. Marcus had a line for that too: "It is in our power to have no opinion about a thing, and not to be disturbed in our soul" (Meditations 6.52). That doesn't mean ignoring the big picture. It means not letting it run your nerves.

What you can control (and where to put your energy)

Your budget. Decide what you're comfortable spending before you fall in love with a house. Think about your monthly payment and your other goals, not just the maximum a lender will approve.

Your pre-approval. Getting pre-approved tells you where you stand, shows sellers you're serious, and helps you move quickly when the right place comes up. Many lenders will also hold your pre-approved rate for up to 120 days, which gives you some protection if rates rise while you're shopping. It's entirely in your hands.

Your preparation as a seller. You can't control who walks through your door, but you can control what they see: decluttering, small repairs, fresh paint where it's needed, a clean and bright home, and a front step that's shovelled and safe in winter.

Your pricing. Sellers decide on their list price, ideally based on what comparable homes have actually sold for, not on what we wish our home were worth. A realistic price is one of the biggest levers a seller has.

The condition of your home. Dealing with known issues ahead of time, or at least disclosing them honestly, heads off surprises that can derail a deal later.

Your inspection and due diligence. Buyers can choose a qualified home inspector, read the report with a clear head, and ask good questions. An inspection report is information, not a verdict.

Your responsiveness. In a busy market, the buyer or seller who answers quickly, signs promptly and has their paperwork ready often has the edge.

Your negotiating stance. You can't control the other side's offer, but you can control how you respond: calmly, clearly, and without taking it personally. The steadiest person at the table usually does well.

Who's on your team. You choose your realtor, your lender, your lawyer and your inspector. Choose people who know this market and will tell you the truth.

The Lloydminster wrinkle: two provinces, one city

Here's something that makes our city unique. Lloydminster straddles the Alberta–Saskatchewan border, running along the Fourth Meridian. We're one city with one council, governed under a special piece of legislation called the Lloydminster Charter, which both provinces approve. But which side of the border a property sits on still matters in some practical ways:

• Land titles. Property on the Alberta side is registered through Alberta's land titles system, and property on the Saskatchewan side through Saskatchewan's land titles registry. Your lawyer will handle it, but it's good to know.
• Provincial services. Things like vehicle registration and insurance, and your health card, follow the province you live in. Moving from one side to the other can mean some paperwork.
• Sales tax. Alberta doesn't have a provincial sales tax, and the Saskatchewan side of Lloydminster has special provincial sales tax rules because of its border location. The details depend on what you're buying, so check with a tax professional about your own situation.
• Property taxes. The border doesn't mean two separate city tax systems, but taxes vary from property to property, so always ask for a home's actual tax history before you buy.

This is all very knowable, which puts it firmly in the "things you can control" column. You just need to ask the right questions.

A quick checklist for buyers

• Get pre-approved before you start seriously shopping
• Set a comfortable budget, not just a maximum
• Make a short list of must-haves and nice-to-haves
• Know which side of the border you're considering, and what that means for you
• Book a qualified home inspection and read the report calmly
• Keep your documents ready so you can move quickly
• Decide in advance how you'll handle multiple-offer situations

A quick checklist for sellers

• Price based on real comparable sales, not hope
• Declutter, clean and take care of small repairs
• Disclose known issues honestly and early
• Keep the home show-ready (and the walks clear in winter)
• Be flexible with showing times when you can
• Respond to offers promptly and calmly
• Pick an agent who will give you straight advice, even when it's not what you want to hear

Let go of the rest

None of this means the uncontrollable stuff doesn't matter. Rates, inventory and the economy absolutely shape the market we're all working in. But when you put your time and attention into the things that are yours to decide, something shifts. You make better decisions, you sleep better, and you're ready when the right opportunity comes along.

Marcus had one more piece of advice that I think every buyer and seller can use: "if thou dost not see clear, stop and take the best advisers" (Meditations 10.12). In plain English, when things feel foggy, don't guess. Ask someone who knows.

That's what I'm here for. Whether you're buying your first home, selling the one you raised your family in, or just trying to figure out which side of the border makes sense for you, I'd be glad to sit down and help you sort out what you can control, and help you worry less about what you can't.

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Jordan Bird | LPT Realty — 17 years serving clients in real estate, licensed in Alberta and Saskatchewan